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Male Disposability

Watch this first:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vp8tToFv-bA

About a year ago I stumbled upon this video from another blogger that I found to be very interesting.  In the video she (girlwriteswhat, or Karen Straughan) talks about the current state of feminism and the role of males in society, primarily their unsung disposability within our culture.  I think she makes a lot of great points and I agree with most of what she says.  I think the term "equality" is something that has been muddied over the years under the guise of what the feminist movement has become.  It no longer stands for equality between genders.  It isn't about equality across the board anymore, but rather about getting the same rewards as men without even discussing giving up the rewards of things like chivalry and exclusive rights.  My stance is that equality is equality across the board regardless of gender, race or sexual orientation.  Equality is not just about gaining the rewards and good things that you see the other side getting.  It is also about giving up the advantages that you had on your side when things weren't equal.  Feminism as a whole no longer has this in mind.  "Equality" has now been replaced with "this would make me happy, so I want it".

I'm sure I will post something a little more detailed at some point, but I need to gather my facts first.  Expect more in the future.

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